I'm aware that I don't blog enough. Martin's always got something new up, and my last log is from March. Sheesh.
The thing is, when it's winter, I'm struggling to cope with the ordinary demands of life. Commenting on the way things are going, or even standing back far enough to observe how they're doing, is low on the list. I'm just too tired.
Then summer comes, and I'm doing all the things I couldn't do during the dark time. And somehow, I get so absorbed in all the things that are going on that once again I can't step back and describe them. I seem to be too busy.
Now is a good example. My mother's over for a fortnight, getting her Alex time in. As with my Dad's visit in January, Martin and I aren't taking any time off. But we've taken Alex out of his nursery for the time she's over. So I'm being a working Mom, a daughter, and a hostess all at once.
Plus I'm binding her a blank book as a birthday present. We've already been to the tannery to pick out the leather for the covers, and I'm most of the way through the bind.
But even when we don't have visitors, we're pretty busy. Not that I'm complaining - I only "work" (for pay) 3 days a week. Martin works 4. We both get to spend a lot of time and energy on Alex. On the one hand, it can be hard work - he's well into toddlerhood, walking all over the place, demanding things to play with, and throwing the odd (brief, mercifully) tantrum when he is denied. On the other hand, time with Alex is tremendously rewarding, whether he's sitting at his little table typing on a spare keyboard (just like Mom!), or sorting pebbles in the front garden. And he socialises well, riding in the backpack as I go around town or do lunch with family and friends. He's even helped me with a geocache I'll be posting soon. There's a lot of hard work in there, but when he turns to me and gives me a huge kiss, I can't seem to mind.
The days I spend at work are rewarding as well. I'm in a department I like, working with people I enjoy dealing with, on a steep learning curve. I can even wear black - unlike my previous department, where I felt too gothic, I'm rarely the only one all in black now. There are stressful times, but all in all, I find the work days flying by.
My current hobby - bookbinding - takes up a good deal of time as well. I'm entirely self-taught so far, and after six months I'm finally producing things that I'm willing to give away without apology. They're still not perfect, but I no longer feel my recipients are being charitable by taking the books I bind. I bind for the pleasure of making things, of creating something beautiful. Being able to give them away is a bonus, and keeps me from drowning in blank and rebound books.
And somewhere in there, in hugs at the sink and long chats after the lights are out at night, I still have time to be amazed at the man I married. We spend a lot more time as comrades in nappies rather than smitten lovers now, but watching the way he delights in Alex is just another way of falling in love with him.
So this is a busy time, but every aspect of it holds some reward. And I have to get my joy in quick, like a grasshopper, before the winter pares me back to the bare minimum.